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Police Dept Wanted a Cop to Kill a Suicidal Dad, He Chose Not To, So They Fired Him


Weirton, WV — Former Weirton police officer Stephen Mader is suing the city after he was fired for not killing a suicidal man who needed help.

As we reported last year, on May 6, 2016, Mader responded to a domestic call about a suicidal person. When he arrived on the scene, Mader confronted 23-year-old Ronald D. Williams who was armed and mentally distraught.

Madar said that he began talking to the young man in his “calm voice.”

“I told him, ‘Put down the gun,’ and he’s like, ‘Just shoot me.’ And I told him, ‘I’m not going to shoot you brother.’ Then he starts flicking his wrist to get me to react to it.


“I thought I was going to be able to talk to him and de-escalate it. I knew it was a suicide-by-cop” situation,” Mader said, adding that, “He wasn’t screaming, yelling, he wasn’t angry. He just seemed distraught. Whenever he told me to shoot him it was as if he was pleading with me. At first, I’m thinking, ‘Do I really need to shoot this guy?’ But after hearing ‘just shoot me’ and his demeanor, it was, ‘I definitely can’t.'”

Mader showed incredible restraint in the situation, even though Williams was attempting to provoke a suicide by cop.

Sadly, as Mader began to reason with Williams and de-escalate the situation, backup arrived, and another officer immediately shot and killed Williams without a second of consideration.

To add insult to injury, Mader was fired for his restraint, and the officer who murdered Williams was cleared of all wrongdoing, showing that the police department is explicitly encouraging indiscriminate killings.

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Now, Mader is understandably reconsidering his career choices and has filed a lawsuit against the city that employed him.

“I loved being a police officer. And for them to say because of this incident you’re not going to continue here was heartbreaking. It had me questioning myself, should I be an officer,” Mader told NBC.

West Virginia attorney and ACLU representative Timothy P. O’Brien is helping to bring the lawsuit against the city.

“The City of Weirton’s decision to fire officer Mader because he chose not to shoot and kill a fellow citizen, when he believed that he should not use such force, not only violates the Constitution, common sense and public policy, but incredibly punishes restraint. When given the tragic, and, far too frequent unnecessary use of deadly force, such restraint should be praised not penalized. To tell a police officer, when in doubt either shoot to kill or get fired, is a choice that no police officer should ever have to make and is a message that is wrong and should never be sent,” O’Brien said.

“There’s the thin blue line, and one of the ironies of this case is that as we’ve seen across the county how many instances police have used deadly force in circumstances where that force is questioned, but nothing is ever done. In most cases, you don’t see training or suspension. When you contrast with what Officer Mader did and how he’s been treated, and officers who’ve used deadly force and how they’ve been treated, it speaks volumes to why we have a problem with deadly force in this country,” O’Brien added.

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Mader has no regrets and still believes he did the right thing.

“I wouldn’t change anything. Even after them saying that I failed to eliminate a threat and that it should have been handled differently, I still believe I did the right thing. And a lot of people think I did the right thing, too. I know it’s not just me,” he said.

Shooting and killing suicidal or mentally distraught people sadly seems to be standard operating procedure for police across the country. We have covered countless cases over the years where officers have indiscriminately killed suicidal people instead of helping them out.

Obviously, if a family member makes a phone call to police because a loved one is suicidal, the last thing they want is for someone to get hurt, but when police arrive the situation tends to escalate quickly and result in violence.


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  • The Cat’s Vagina

    You forgot one important detail about this case – the gun he was brandishing wasn’t even loaded.

    • How is that relevant?

      • The Cat’s Vagina

        It means the (good) cop’s gut instinct was right all along. He never had any intention of hurting anyone.

    • WeAreYourGods

      Not that the cop could know that, but the obvious courage and compassion shown while trying to de-escalate the situation is in stark contrast to the second cop’s automatic killing of the man upon seeing a weapon.

      • The Cat’s Vagina

        I believe there are plenty of cops out there just waiting for an excuse – it’s pretty obvious in the way they resort to summary execution at the first hint of danger.


    Using a quota system has been ruled time and time again to be in violation of everyone’s Civil Liberties. Until the prosecutors who allow this behavior are held accountable tt will only get worse.
    This ilink below is a very good idea but much more is needed. Prosecutors should also be held responsible for enforcing our Civil Liberties. Likewise Civil suits and protests should be directed at them and not the judges or police. Diversion is their greatest tactic. Everyone is barking up the wrong tree.


  • More like Free Depression Project

  • fgt4urights

    He failed his gang initiation test is all.

  • WeAreYourGods

    Richard Marcinko, founder of SEAL team six wrote about his selection process for the elite counter-terror team and talked about a former SWAT cop from Florida who was selected, but who he had to re-train to not hesitate to pull the trigger on sight. He talked about the distinction between cops, who are not supposed to shoot on sight but instead assess and try to avoid lethal force, and specwarriors who shoot first and avoid hesitation.

    I bet old Demo Dick Marcinko wouldn’t have that problem anymore with cops today.